Who do I consider as a good man?

Who do I consider as a good man?

This is a perspective of a lunatic, insane woman. You are free to disagree with me. You know what? Don’t believe me at all, I am just joking…Just kidding..I am deadly serious right now.

I’ve read somewhere that women don’t need fluffy dogs, neither screaming monkeys. They need a silent tiger that walks next to them. Basically, this is to tell you who is considered as a real man.

Let’s be honest here. This is not that easy. In real life most of the men aren’t tigers. Well...not even fluffy cats. So who I consider as a real man?

For me it is very important to be able to look up to my man. Be proud of him. What he has done, what goals he has. The way he loves and lives life. He should lift me up to be a better person and motivate people in his environment. Be a real man doesn’t mean that he should have muscles and look like a blown balloon. It is way more complex than that. He should be a role model, not only for his woman or friends, also for his (future) children. As I wrote in my previous article, the real woman is the homemaker and the real man should be the home protector and also a teacher. Furthermore, a good man is there for you in bad days or bad moods. Not only when you are shiny and happy. There is nothing worst when you have your dark days and no one is there for you. Not even your hero –who became an ugly frog as soon as you need him. Anyway, this is true to everyone regardless which sex you belong to. Don’t get me wrong there is no such a thing as perfect man or perfect woman, but a unit can be perfect with their imperfection. What the one half of the unit is unable to do the other half complete this gap.

Here is an example. I can’t cook as I never had the need to be the next Jamie Oliver, but my boyfriend is the master in the kitchen. So he completes this hole. Also, as he is really good in it, I am looking up to him for that. Of course not only for that... but you get my point – I hope. I am not only look up to him for that skill; also I want to be as good as or even better than him. Next thing I can remember is that I am richer with a cooking book, and trying to figure out what should be considered as a “pinch of salt”.

As you can see –as always everything – this is a loop. This is a growing procedure. I have to admit something. You can be sure as hell that I will never going to have the need to repair a car or build a table to the living room. Just saying... I forget to mention one big thing. I real man earns respect. Not for his fist with action. Action, that is positive which teach us.

So here are my thoughts. I know it isn’t a lot, but to be honest I just wanted to start a thought line that you can finish inside of you. One last thought to the way… It is important to have great qualities to be a good person, but it’s way more important to have the bad ones to see who is really there for you and who is just a silhouette in your life, and we all know that shadows are there where there isn’t any light, so better to get rid of those shadows. This is what I think and what I believe and as I wrote in the beginning, please feel free to disagree with me.

Who do I consider as a good man?

Mátyás Barbara

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