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Relationship and suitability problems
"If someone is only considers you interesting if you're thinking of his preferences, you live as they wish you to, they not really interested about you. They considered to be interested about themselves. They want to see their system of values within you. Like a mirror. They would like to see you valuing their preferred values; therefore they want to have them. And if you are trying to meet their needs, you are no longer you, but them. "
/Csitáry-Hock Tamás/
Am I not good enough for him? Am I not pretty enough? Is my hair not long enough? Or maybe he don’t like my style? Perhaps he doesn’t think I’m smart and mature enough to be with him?
These issues have been raised amongst most of us during a relationship. Surely you have had your mind turned when the cased pique are not quite as interested, as you in him. Why do we always want to adequacy to other people? Why cannot we be smart enough for the man who means the world to us?
I've already had enough, of me, trying to meet every body’s expectations, and I think others should stop it as well, because while we want others to like the way we are,
and we want to be accepted and this develop to be our greatest goal, we can’t be ourselves unconditionally.
We will not be individual personalities, we will disappear and we will only flash in our shadows on Earth.
Do not try to suite other people’s frame of mind! If someone does not like who you really are, but as he want you the way he is, they don’t even deserve you to change any of your behaviour.
However, if you would like to change, because you don’t like the way you are, nobody can stand in your way.
Who does not like you dishevelled, without makeup, sticking out of a T-shirt, you'll never meet their expectations, and you don’t need to try either. Who fell in love with your foundation, lip stick and mascara, your heart and love will not be good enough for them. If they like your dress, not the way you think, you can do anything with that person, they will not appreciate your dreams and they won’t hold your hands for a life time. If your blue eyes and your hair-long is not enough for someone, then that person will not appreciate your smile, and even further, he will not see the tears behind that.
Love cannot brought trough cosmetics and clothes!
Petronella
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