Who do you define as a psychopath? I could bet that you are thinking that I am going to write about killers or mentally sick people’s behavior. No. I will write about normal people, who are just like you or me. Normal men and women until they are falling in love. Because when they start to bind to someone hell just begins.

 

Have you ever met someone and felt that are knowing eachother for years? You are in the same wave lenght, but after couple of dates you start to have the feeling that this isn’t for you. You think you‘ve decided right that better to realize it now than later to regret a bad relationship. The tricky thing is that only you think so. First, you receive unpleased or embarrassing phone calls. You might even feel bad for that person but soon you would do anything to delete him/her in your life. As I wrote before it starts harmless. Calls, messages and emails. In the beginning you show patience. You reply and naturally you feel horrible but soon you get annoyed by even the phone ringing. So you say that he/she should stop the “harmless” harassment. You try to forget the name of your stalker. That’s right, you have a stalker. Congratulation!

 

The question is: What should you do? How should you behave with her/him?

First of all, if you can’t handle it by yourself then ask for help.  Maybe there is psychopath friend who knows what to do or contact me. I am psychopath too (well, unless in a healthy way), but let’s skip the joke. If it is more than enough then report it to the police but what can you do to avoid the contact with him/her?

 

Try not to react to at all. Why? People in general hate when they are not getting certain reaction. Especially psychopaths hate uncertainty. All the creepy things what they do is for attention.  They want to be important, important enough that you care of them. Maybe ‘care’ is the wrong word. What I wanted to say they want attention. Like a naughty little child, who cries and breaks everything to have mommy’s attention. The situation is similar but in this case you are the ‘mommy’. If you have luck your ‘naughty child’ gets bored of it and he/she starts to search for another victim. Interesting is that they fall in love really quickly and they act theatrical, so they can’t bear to be alone. If they are not in relationship, it means they are in process to be in one.  As they are emotionally, really instable it can be that you get a suicidal one. As they are hungry for attention, suicide is only a tool for them to reach you. Here comes the help. Not only he/she needs help but you as well. This is a serious emotional threat. If it is serious and not just an act then only medical and psychological help can be effective.

 

Don’t react with a hot temper. Always rethink over and over your steps before you actually want to do any action. Harassment is a serious threat. Not only the physical one, emotional too. One of you should survive this torture without getting mental and you will survive it.