Is it? Is it alright to open up without fear and let lett he person into your life? No matter what childish or ridiclous habbits you have, no matter when you are lonely you talk to yourself? Just let it all go… Because if she/he doesn’t likes you at the first place it would be better know right away, isn’t?

So I ask myself and to you of course. Is it ok? Well, I wish I could say a big ’yes’.  In this case a ’yes, but…’ is more suitable. Yes, because any kind of long term relationship starts with honesty. I am not talking about the honesty to the other person (of course it is also very important), I am talking about honesty to yourself. As I wrote many times before you have a big serious relationship with yourself, a marriage if you like. This marriage takes until the last drop of blood is pumping into your heart and the thaugh part is that you can’t divorce from yourself ever. So it is important to be yourself  as you can’t be an another person.

 Here comes the BUT. Yes it is ok, but don’t show everything in once. Like in card games. Maybe you have good cards, excellent ones but if you play it all once there is a big chance to loose or you win but you could win more if you have had the patiance. If you share everything and I mean EVERYTHING int he first five minutes, you can sure as hell that she/he will run away from you. The key is on  the right quantity…not everything in once. Right now, I feel kind of unfair to say this as I know I ramble all the time. I always suprise myself like ’oops, did I just said this out loud?’. Yes, I have my mistakes as well and I am practicing this method too, because I experienced that they do run away and I end up sitting by myself with hundred of tissues and blame myself for everything. So what should I and my lunatic fellows do? Well, stay strong, have faith, be patient, be yourself but pay attention of the amount of craziness and appriciate the other person’s craziness.

PS: All who run away from us…Let them run! I hope they run like Forest Gump. Across the country, for month and by the end they get exhausted anyway. When they turn around they will realize that no one runs with them. You know why? Because somebody is running away from them… That’s life Honey. Take it or leave it.