As I am clearly from the female species I was always wondering who should be considered as a real woman.  I remember when me and my mother were walking home from the kindergarten and a question pop out from my head: What is sexy? What does it mean?

I admit… I was and still am weird, but thank God I have a gorgeous mother who answered my question gracefully. She said that sexy is when a woman has beautiful hair, healthy white teeth, nice manicure and always shares a smile with everyone.

To be honest, I believed her and I still do. Think about it. Sexiness and being a real woman doesn’t mean that you should show your boobs. It is an attitude. Of course it is related with the outside beauty but it is nothing without the inner beauty. Guys, just think about it. When  you go clubbing or just hanging out with your  friends. Who would you rather talking to? A beautiful girl with a miserable face expression or with a girl who has a happy bright smile? If you would choose the girl with the miserable face expression you are a drunk jerk….just saying.

 

You can look the other way around. You can be the most precious girl with the biggest heart in the whole wide world but if you look like a broomstick, it means you have done only half job. I always say the following line as a joke but it is true: You can’t get free drinks with inner beauty. Isn’t  it true? I mean not the free drink part, I mean  real woman should be beautiful  inside but you have do your best to shine your beauty outside to the world. They belong together.

You know what? Let’s skip the beauty part. I think you get my point. If not…well, let me know and I will explain it to you (again).  In my point of view a real woman has a lot of duty.  She should be the best (female) friend for her boyfriend or husband. She should be a good lover who cares about what her man wants. Ladies, I know it is the hard but you should learn to cook as we females are the homemakers. Not even mention to being smart, strong and I could continue it until the end of the day.

So there is a strong, beautiful  woman who could make a whole new empire in the desert only with the help of a spoon. Well, good for her but where is the role of the man? The man is the protector, the lion in the wild jungle and a real woman needs a real lion not a fluffy little cat. A real woman looks up to the man and walks side by side next to him. She doesn’t walks behind of him and she doesn’t  runs to the spotlight. She walks next to him silently with dignity. Luckily, I have not only a gorgeous mother  but an amazing grandmother as well. She always said the following to me: Remember that the man is the head and the woman is the neck. The head is might smarter, but the neck decides where the head should turn. The important thing is that leave the head in the believe that he is the one who has the control.
 
These are the codes I believe in and I try to live by to be a real woman one day. As gorgeous and graceful  as my mother and my grandmother. What is your code to be a real woman? Gentlemen, who do you consider as a real woman?