Do you have fake friends or are you the fake one? I believe that everybody was a fake friend once in life. The foundation of my theory is that there are 3 major things in the female species:  jealousy, envy and competition. Of course, a healthy competition is always good to motivate you to grow and be better. I’m talking about the bad competiton, when someone wants to be like you. Sooner or later that person is going to envy everything you do. No matter  what you do that person wants you to fail.

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The reason of this behavior is that girl knows that she is never going to be like you and this fact annoys her so much that she becomes angry of you. Well, she thinks that she is angry of you but  in real she is angry of herself. Why? Because she is never going to be like you. But let’s admit it! You were the fake friend once as well. It is hard to accept yourself as you are, especially in this bloody fashion, size and marketing oriented world. Let me tell you that this isn’t easy as a walk in the park. You have a constant battle with yourself and with this war inside of you, which makes your life a million times harder.



So, how do you deal with fake friends? You don’t.  You should ignore them, don’t give a thing what they are doing or thinking. You just do what you have to do to be happy and succesful. Believe me, you don’t need friends. You  have them. Here comes the point when you realise that what matters is the quality of friends and not the quantity of them.  You need people who guide you through life and show you the right direction. You don’t want friends who are too judgemental or constantly complimenting you. You want friends who are there for you no matter what you are going through and this is valuable. We need to select the people in our lives and who don’t  deserve it showing them them the door.